You can not change a child with fear or control, but you may possibly through connection.
This tagline makes sense when we read it for the first time, however, it is always easier said than done.
90% of the parents have experienced that as the child grows up, they tend to face this challenge of losing connection with the child and that love, that bond seems to fall apart. However, we start questioning our journey of parenting quite late and as a child enters in teenage, it becomes really challenging to re-build that lost bond.
I don’t say it’s impossible but yes, lot of conscious efforts are needed from parents side.
We all know that connection is the basis of every relationship, be it with a friend or spouse or even our child. However, as we start to experience this relationship, we unknowingly start to project our expectations, thoughts, fears, limiting beliefs, needs, anxiety and even traumas onto this next person.
And this is the time we start to make this relationship frustrating and suffocating. Even our child is not an exception for this. And trust me, even my early parenting was the victim of this behavior and I was loosing connection not only with my child but with my spouse too.
As the experts in this field say, you tend to evolve only when you hit rock bottom. My moment of realization that I was losing connection with my loved ones was my rock bottom and from there my life started taking a U turn.
My continuing inner work helped me to understand that “What we are today is the direct result of how our childhood was, how we were treated by our caretakers and lot of other things happening in our surroundings.”
And this inner work is the gateway to our not only joyful parenting but also a joyful life.
When you connect with me, rest assured that our communication will leave you with lots of questions about self and an ability to find your own answers instead of quick “fixes” to your challenges.
Welcome to “Rise While You Raise”
You can not change a child with fear or control, but you may possibly through connection.
This tagline makes sense when we read it for the first time, however, it is always easier said than done.
90% of the parents have experienced that as the child grows up, they tend to face this challenge of losing connection with the child and that love, that bond seems to fall apart. However, we start questioning our journey of parenting quite late and as a child enters in teenage, it becomes really challenging to re-build that lost bond.
I don’t say it’s impossible but yes, lot of conscious efforts are needed from parents side.
We all know that connection is the basis of every relationship, be it with a friend or spouse or even our child. However, as we start to experience this relationship, we unknowingly start to project our expectations, thoughts, fears, limiting beliefs, needs, anxiety and even traumas onto this next person.
And this is the time we start to make this relationship frustrating and suffocating. Even our child is not an exception for this. And trust me, even my early parenting was the victim of this behavior and I was loosing connection not only with my child but with my spouse too.
As the experts in this field say, you tend to evolve only when you hit rock bottom. My moment of realization that I was losing connection with my loved ones was my rock bottom and from there my life started taking a U turn.
My continuing inner work helped me to understand that “What we are today is the direct result of how our childhood was, how we were treated by our caretakers and lot of other things happening in our surroundings.”
And this inner work is the gateway to our not only joyful parenting but also a joyful life.
When you connect with me, rest assured that our communication will leave you with lots of questions about self and an ability to find your own answers instead of quick “fixes” to your challenges.
Welcome to “Rise While You Raise”